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ARTICLES
Each piece offers thoughtful, attachment-informed insight into real-life challenges—helping you better understand your emotions, your patterns, and your relationships in a way that feels both clear and compassionate.
NEWSLETTERS
Our newsletters bring these insights directly to you, along with timely encouragement, featured resources, and updates from Gilmore & Green. Whether you’re looking for a moment of grounding, a shift in perspective, or tools to support your growth, this space is here to meet you where you are.


The Difference Between Spirituality and Religion
Spirituality and religion are related but distinct. Spiritual values — like compassion, forgiveness, and gratitude — guide our inner life and don't require formal religion. Religion can enrich those values, but when culture overrides humility, people feel shamed and drift away. Rebuilding faith is a personal journey, and finding your own spiritual values is the perfect place to start.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 266 min read


How Can I Overcome Anger?
Anger is normal — but when left unchecked, it quietly damages the relationships we treasure most. Often, what looks like anger on the surface is unresolved pain underneath. The good news: with awareness of your triggers, simple breathing techniques, and a willingness to pause before reacting, anger can be managed, and relationships can be protected and restored.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 264 min read


From a Mother Who Knows: Creating Safety for Suffering Souls
Creating safety for suffering souls means listening deeply, respecting others' journeys without judgment, and being a fierce conduit of God's love. By holding space for what we don't fully understand, we can offer acceptance, belonging, and comfort to those navigating faith, identity, and life's hardest challenges.

Sharilyn Green
Apr 263 min read


How Do I Know I’m Enough?
Underneath so many of our struggles lives a quiet, painful question: Am I enough? The feeling of "not enough" isn't proof of your inadequacy — it's a signal that something needs care. Enoughness isn't earned through achievement or performance. It grows through experiences of acceptance, belonging, comfort, and emotional safety. You cannot prove your way into feeling enough — but you can heal your way there.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 253 min read


Ketamine Assisted Therapy
For those battling treatment-resistant depression, anxiety, or PTSD, ketamine therapy is offering remarkable hope. Unlike traditional antidepressants that take weeks, ketamine can bring relief within hours. By increasing neuroplasticity and "rewiring" rigid thought patterns, ketamine — combined with therapy — is helping patients make lasting breakthroughs where other treatments have fallen short.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 253 min read


Love, Believe, Do, and Live Today
Most New Year's resolutions fail within a week — not because we lack discipline, but because we're focused on the wrong moment. The Dalai Lama said it simply: only two days are powerless — yesterday and tomorrow. Today is where everything happens. Let go of past regrets and future fears, and choose to fully live, love, and act right now.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 252 min read


Why You Need Mindfulness
Mindfulness isn't just a buzzword — it's the number one tool for addressing chronic anxiety, and science backs it up. Studies show it physically reduces the size of the amygdala, the brain's stress center, lowering cortisol and calming the fight-or-flight response. Just 10 minutes a day can rewire your brain for greater calm, resilience, and emotional clarity.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 253 min read


Virtual Relationships = Counterfeit Connections
AI companion apps promise the perfect relationship — but research tells a different story. Over 60% of women using AI romantic platforms report risk for depression, and more than half report high loneliness. Virtual connections lack the friction, depth, and nonverbal richness that make real relationships grow. True intimacy can't be programmed.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 253 min read


What Do People Regret Most?
When researchers asked 370 Americans their greatest regrets, the answer was clear: 43% of all regrets were tied to relationships — not careers, finances, or education. Loneliness and disconnection are also linked to depression, heart disease, and early death. The most important item on your to-do list today? Deepen your most important relationships.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 254 min read


Self-Worth and Embracing Our Divine Identity
There's a meaningful difference between self-esteem and self-worth. Self-esteem measures how we perceive ourselves today — but self-worth reaches deeper, anchoring our value in divine heritage and eternal potential. When we catch glimpses of who we truly are and who we're destined to become, we find the energy and courage to do hard things.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 252 min read


The Antidote to Personal Pain
When we're drowning in our own pain, the last thing we think to do is serve others — yet research shows it may be the most powerful antidote. Serving others releases mood-boosting chemicals, reduces isolation, and restores purpose. Even Viktor Frankl, surviving the Holocaust, found that lifting others sustained him through unimaginable suffering. When we give, we receive far more in return.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 257 min read


The Comparison Trap
Comparing yourself to others feels natural — but it's a cycle that quietly erodes self-worth, fuels anxiety, and breeds loneliness. Social media makes it worse, flooding us with highlight reels that distort reality. The antidote isn't avoiding all comparison — it's redirecting your focus inward, celebrating your own progress, and measuring yourself only against who you were yesterday.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 256 min read


The Paralyzing Effects of Self-Doubt
Self-doubt doesn't just silence your inner confidence — it quietly damages your most important relationships. From avoiding hard conversations to seeking constant reassurance, unchecked self-doubt creates disconnection and insecurity. The good news? With self-awareness, open communication, and self-compassion, you can break the cycle and build the confidence you deserve.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 255 min read


The Struggle to Stay Motivated
THE STRUGGLE TO STAY MOTIVATED
Do you find yourself struggling to find motivation to complete challenging tasks? Maybe you look at your daily to-do list and your eyes glaze over as you contemplate how to find the energy to even begin. The danger is that the shame of your lack of motivation becomes a block to re-commitment and becomes a negative cycle of personal paralysis and discouragement.
Solid research has been done on how to stimulate and motivate people to identify and

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 255 min read


Why Is Our Happiness Slipping?
The World Happiness Report reveals an alarming drop in US well-being — especially among those under 30, who wouldn't even rank in the top 60 globally. Research points to a common thread: declining faith, weakened relationships, and an outsized focus on career and financial success. The antidote is simpler than we think — reconnect with others, cultivate spirituality, and serve.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 252 min read


Why is Forgiveness So Difficult?
Forgiveness feels like surrender — of our pain, our need for justice, our pride. But it isn't about excusing harm or forgetting what happened. It's about freeing yourself from the weight of resentment. As we acknowledge our own imperfections, our capacity for empathy and compassion grows. Forgiveness is ultimately not for them — it's for you.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 252 min read


The Power of Women With Quiet Confidence
True influence doesn't require volume or dominance — it requires conviction anchored in purpose. Many women silence themselves out of fear of rejection or conflict, yet underneath both silence and protest is the same longing: I want to matter. I want to feel safe. When women discover they can speak honestly and remain connected, secure voices emerge — and secure voices change families.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 254 min read


Your Choice: Paralysis or Progression
When a team of smoke jumpers lost radio contact with their dispatcher, they waited seven hours for instructions rather than moving forward. A fire chief later showed them that just 50 yards down any path, the signal was clear. The lesson: don't let fear paralyze you. Start moving, and course corrections will come.

Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT
Apr 2512 min read
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