Seekers of Truth Ask Questions
Have you ever had a question about God or the meaning and purpose of life, but you felt guilty for having that question? Maybe you worried about whom you could approach with that question for fear of being judged or reprimanded as rebellious or disrespectful for even questioning something you should just accept and move on.
What if we look at this from a different angle? If the most brilliant student in the classroom is the one who asks the most questions, then this principle should also be applied to the Seeker of Truth, longing to find rest in their journey through investigation, exploration, and challenging “what is.” Seekers of Truth must be able to freely ask questions without feeling shame. I think this is a huge misunderstanding about journeys of faith that tends to result in people being judged and subsequently being labeled a rebel, or in a sinful state of murmuring.
The most dissatisfying response to a faith question is, “It just is what it is… don’t ask why.” I like to use “why” in my work with clients because it doesn’t necessarily lead them to a distinct answer, but it fosters a moment of processing and deeper thought. It inspires digging and pondering. If we don’t ask, “why?” then we may not successfully move into pondering and a state of healthy mindfulness.
Pondering, processing, and questioning is a very important part of faith building. When we start down that path with an open and teachable heart, the comfort and peace that comes from reaching to God helps us settle into, “Maybe the ‘why’ doesn’t matter anymore, as long as I feel the companionship of the Spirit along the way.”
The best guidance I like to offer people who find themselves in a state of questioning is to suggest they seek the most helpful sources.
Prayer or Meditation: Spending quiet time in prayer or meditation can bring an abundance of peace and clarity. Slowing down and setting aside distractions is the most effective way to find answers and direction.
Sacred Text (Scriptures): Reading ancient writings can be challenging for some, particularly because the language is so foreign to our typical day-to-day conversations. However, the more you immerse in the reading of ancient text, the more comfortable you become. Some find scriptural passages poetic and comforting. The suggestion I offer those who seek answers and truth is to open the scriptures to a random page. Bring a question to that moment of reading, and as you read try to keep your mind open to whatever impressions or promptings you may receive. Try this… trust me… this can be a powerful experience.
Journaling: Start by writing down your questions, doubts, and reflections. Once they are written in your journal, take each one and write about it. Write about the confusion, the specific question, and how it impacts your life. While writing, an abundance of inspiration can be a surprising result.
Spiritual Leaders and Mentors: Seek out someone with whom you feel safe, and someone you respect and admire because of their strength of faith. Set up the meeting by requesting that they just listen to your concerns and questions. Then, once you have expressed your question, listen intently to their counsel. Listen to your heart as they share their insight with you. As soon as possible, write down what you felt, and what stood out to you as the most helpful in that conversation.
These suggested sources do not include the internet, or meeting with those who are also confused and feeling lost. Similarly, when you are going through a very difficult trauma or challenge, you wouldn’t meet with someone who is similarly traumatized because they are not able to offer you the scaffolding and support you desperately need. This is why I recommend seeking out someone who has found peace and clarity. They will be able to be with you in the midst of your questions, not judge you for having them, and will help you exercise patience in the process.
