<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Gilmore and Green]]></title><description><![CDATA[Gilmore and Green]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/blogandnewsletters</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2026 03:44:06 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Cultivating the Gift of Reverence]]></title><description><![CDATA[Reverence is not just being quiet — it's an action, an attitude, and a spiritual gift. It opens our hearts to clarity, enables personal revelation, and unlocks the powers of heaven. In a world growing increasingly distracted and irreverent, cultivating this gift becomes essential to our spiritual survival and our ability to embrace our divine identity.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/cultivating-the-gift-of-reverence</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a0c73d3b2731dece74d6165</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2026 14:34:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_b6124ac488184effbcc76d7ec6ba34f2~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Remarkable Power of Listening]]></title><description><![CDATA[True listening is more than staying quiet — it's emotional presence. It communicates: 'I am here. I am with you. You matter to me.' When someone feels genuinely heard, their nervous system settles, defenses soften, and connection rebuilds. In a rushed, reactive world, deep listening becomes one of the most powerful acts of love and leadership we can offer.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/the-remarkable-power-of-listening</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69eee2937c7678baadea971f</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2026 04:21:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_1c11eb64b4f6438482fc41bba9f7e366~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Difference Between Spirituality and Religion]]></title><description><![CDATA[Spirituality and religion are related but distinct. Spiritual values — like compassion, forgiveness, and gratitude — guide our inner life and don't require formal religion. Religion can enrich those values, but when culture overrides humility, people feel shamed and drift away. Rebuilding faith is a personal journey, and finding your own spiritual values is the perfect place to start.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/the-difference-between-spirituality-and-religion</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69eee0a63fe49635e690ab90</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2026 04:12:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_8d4e245e0ab04b7a841cd5f9d9d3bd1c~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Embracing Our Divine Identity]]></title><description><![CDATA[Divine Identity — meaning 'identity of God' — is not something we must earn or become worthy of. It is ours to claim today. When we truly understand who we are as spirit children of Heavenly Father, our lives take on stunning purpose. Three key sources of truth — our patriarchal blessing, spiritual gifts, and prayer — help us embrace this divine power daily.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/embracing-our-divine-identity</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69eedc993fe49635e690a127</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2026 04:03:52 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_cd396103aacf488680ffd3c10cce6890~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[How Can I Overcome Anger?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Anger is normal — but when left unchecked, it quietly damages the relationships we treasure most. Often, what looks like anger on the surface is unresolved pain underneath. The good news: with awareness of your triggers, simple breathing techniques, and a willingness to pause before reacting, anger can be managed, and relationships can be protected and restored.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/how-can-i-overcome-anger</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ed8b1581e17196bd296fcf</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2026 03:47:47 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_8367cc5a15fc4f40925ed51eef388cbb~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[From a Mother Who Knows: Creating Safety for Suffering Souls]]></title><description><![CDATA[Creating safety for suffering souls means listening deeply, respecting others' journeys without judgment, and being a fierce conduit of God's love. By holding space for what we don't fully understand, we can offer acceptance, belonging, and comfort to those navigating faith, identity, and life's hardest challenges.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/from-a-mother-who-knows-creating-safety-for-suffering-souls</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69eeda1f40a0465aa6c8ea44</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2026 03:43:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_411631d063464d7dbf39e6c2b5cd2b75~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Sharilyn Green</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[How To Build Emotional Resilience]]></title><description><![CDATA[Emotional resilience is an art of living entwined with self-belief, self-compassion, and enhanced self-awareness — a way of empowering ourselves to see adversity as temporary and keep evolving through pain and challenge. Built on four pillars — physical, mental, social, and spiritual health — it's a lifelong journey, not a destination.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/how-to-build-emotional-resilience</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69eed7323fe49635e69091a8</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2026 03:37:13 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_8f52196f3fd3474bbd3dc854b04fa580~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_793,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[How Do I Know I’m Enough?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Underneath so many of our struggles lives a quiet, painful question: Am I enough? The feeling of "not enough" isn't proof of your inadequacy — it's a signal that something needs care. Enoughness isn't earned through achievement or performance. It grows through experiences of acceptance, belonging, comfort, and emotional safety. You cannot prove your way into feeling enough — but you can heal your way there.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/how-do-i-know-i-m-enough</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ed89d1b502c05c43b85ba0</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 03:47:50 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_dd5633aac55d455a9a856f0dd30f81e5~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Independence Day: The Rest of the Story]]></title><description><![CDATA[Most people know July 4th as America's birthday — but the story behind the Declaration of Independence is far more dramatic than fireworks suggest. From 56 men risking death by treason, to Jefferson's deleted anti-slavery paragraph, to the fact that most signatures happened on August 2nd — Independence Day is richer, bolder, and more complicated than we were taught.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/independence-day-the-rest-of-the-story</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ed890204fc81dfe25dd1fa</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 03:42:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_faf5442d9bcb4af7b7f3686bc60ff872~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ketamine Assisted Therapy]]></title><description><![CDATA[For those battling treatment-resistant depression, anxiety, or PTSD, ketamine therapy is offering remarkable hope. Unlike traditional antidepressants that take weeks, ketamine can bring relief within hours. By increasing neuroplasticity and "rewiring" rigid thought patterns, ketamine — combined with therapy — is helping patients make lasting breakthroughs where other treatments have fallen short.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/ketamine-assisted-therapy</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ed8772b502c05c43b85735</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 03:38:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_2a7851dd94bd4d82a8246f7493f4e912~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Love, Believe, Do, and Live Today]]></title><description><![CDATA[Most New Year's resolutions fail within a week — not because we lack discipline, but because we're focused on the wrong moment. The Dalai Lama said it simply: only two days are powerless — yesterday and tomorrow. Today is where everything happens. Let go of past regrets and future fears, and choose to fully live, love, and act right now.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/love-believe-do-and-live-today</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ed861904fc81dfe25dca92</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 03:35:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_ab01ed40974c4e4692cacf71e3eb87b4~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why You Need Mindfulness]]></title><description><![CDATA[Mindfulness isn't just a buzzword — it's the number one tool for addressing chronic anxiety, and science backs it up. Studies show it physically reduces the size of the amygdala, the brain's stress center, lowering cortisol and calming the fight-or-flight response. Just 10 minutes a day can rewire your brain for greater calm, resilience, and emotional clarity.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/why-you-need-mindfulness</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ed84ea04fc81dfe25dc7f8</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 03:28:37 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_7eb081f9d4be4345a52167388c68e70e~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Damaging Impact of Rumors and Gossip]]></title><description><![CDATA[Gossip feels harmless in the moment — but it quietly erodes trust, damages reputations, and weakens the bonds of friendship. When we speak about others without their knowledge or consent, we signal to everyone present that no one is truly safe with us. Leading by example, setting boundaries, and redirecting conversations are powerful ways to protect the people we care about.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/the-damaging-impact-of-rumors-and-gossip</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ed83cfb502c05c43b84ed5</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 03:21:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_0481b08d2eb349afbee795eebbbae9e0~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Power of Listening Authentically]]></title><description><![CDATA[Most people think communication is about what we say — but the listener holds the most powerful role. Authentic listening builds trust, resolves conflict, and deepens connection in ways words alone never can. With the Three R's — Request, Reassure, and Reflect — anyone can transform a conversation from frustrating and disconnected to collaborative and deeply fulfilling.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/the-power-of-listening-authentically</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ed826704fc81dfe25dc335</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 03:16:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_f2bac5f874c245f888f9329c32f86504~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The World of a Withdrawer, Part 2]]></title><description><![CDATA[Becoming emotionally available isn't about being perfect — it's about being courageous. From challenging core beliefs of unworthiness to adopting a "no secrets" policy, emotional availability is a skill that can be learned. When withdrawers choose transparency over self-protection, they don't just save their relationships — they finally find the love and security they've always needed.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/the-world-of-a-withdrawer-part-2</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ed80c681e17196bd2959fb</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 03:10:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_f41b615057e648e6b7eb05befb28f9c5~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The World of a Withdrawer, Part 1]]></title><description><![CDATA[Behind emotional unavailability is often a quiet belief: "If you really knew me, you'd leave." Withdrawers don't lack feelings — they're protecting themselves from anticipated rejection. But the very walls built to avoid heartbreak quietly starve the relationship of the connection both partners desperately need. Emotional availability isn't weakness — it's the pathway to the love and security withdrawers crave most.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/the-world-of-a-withdrawer-part-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ed7ed281e17196bd295588</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 03:03:46 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_aa56f1d39a96414aaab2a38aab7f4d30~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[To Love is to Be Vulnerable]]></title><description><![CDATA[Love isn't just a feeling — it's an action that must be shared, nurtured, and cultivated to survive. As C.S. Lewis wrote, to love anything is to risk a broken heart. But guarding against that risk doesn't protect us — it slowly kills our capacity for joy. The ache of love and loss doesn't diminish us; it deepens and expands our ability to love even more.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/to-love-is-to-be-vulnerable</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ed7d0481e17196bd295200</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 03:02:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_c10dd2fd8db94d6e94d0d5fa9cc3551a~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Trust: Is it Possible to Rebuild Broken Trust?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Broken trust isn't a death sentence for a relationship — it's an invitation to build something stronger. What restores trust isn't perfection; it's a steady track record of honesty, accountability, and emotional presence. When repair is done with sincerity and consistency, relationships often emerge more grounded and resilient than before the rupture.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/trust-is-it-possible-to-rebuild-broken-trust</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ed7b3981e17196bd294e25</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 02:48:04 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_a878c7a127ef4b618463ba73278cdd26~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Virtual Relationships = Counterfeit Connections]]></title><description><![CDATA[AI companion apps promise the perfect relationship — but research tells a different story. Over 60% of women using AI romantic platforms report risk for depression, and more than half report high loneliness. Virtual connections lack the friction, depth, and nonverbal richness that make real relationships grow. True intimacy can't be programmed.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/virtual-relationships-counterfeit-connections</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ed798081e17196bd294a77</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 02:39:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_8a346d95b5834e3c9254d59ba5506ee9~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What Do People Regret Most?]]></title><description><![CDATA[When researchers asked 370 Americans their greatest regrets, the answer was clear: 43% of all regrets were tied to relationships — not careers, finances, or education. Loneliness and disconnection are also linked to depression, heart disease, and early death. The most important item on your to-do list today? Deepen your most important relationships.]]></description><link>https://www.gilmoreandgreen.com/post/what-do-people-regret-most</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ed7818b502c05c43b835c4</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 02:32:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/3621c2_b0d936b8e4db4a5d9bbc3c8ffb5fe35b~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. Debi Gilmore LMFT</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>